http://www.postednote.com/2009/10/14/self-gratification-a-frank-discussion-pg-13/ When you have a ravenous craving for BS. Sat, 12 May 2012 01:27:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://www.postednote.com/2009/10/14/self-gratification-a-frank-discussion-pg-13/comment-page-1/#comment-28453 Jenny B Thu, 15 Oct 2009 17:05:45 +0000 http://www.postednote.com/?p=2018#comment-28453 I absolutely agree that talking about it as kids grow up, even if you aren't sure what to say, is better than not talking about it at all. I have been in small groups with many newly married Christian women who were always told not to talk or think about sex in any way until they were married, and then once they are married, suddenly they are in this terrifying position of being called to love their husband in a sexual way, for which they are completely unprepared and scared of. There has got to be a middle ground there somewhere... I absolutely agree that talking about it as kids grow up, even if you aren’t sure what to say, is better than not talking about it at all.
I have been in small groups with many newly married Christian women who were always told not to talk or think about sex in any way until they were married, and then once they are married, suddenly they are in this terrifying position of being called to love their husband in a sexual way, for which they are completely unprepared and scared of. There has got to be a middle ground there somewhere…

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