Comments on: Bromance: Are You Getting Enough Man Time? http://www.postednote.com/2008/04/15/bromance-are-you-getting-enough-man-time/ When you have a ravenous craving for BS. Thu, 08 Jan 2009 00:57:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Heather http://www.postednote.com/2008/04/15/bromance-are-you-getting-enough-man-time/comment-page-1/#comment-16375 Heather Tue, 15 Apr 2008 18:55:43 +0000 http://www.postednote.com/?p=968#comment-16375 Guys definitely need "guy time". I don't disagree with that at all. I don't want to spend all of my time with you and I hope you don't want to spend all of your time with me. There needs to be a balance and each person needs to have things they can do without their significant other. The times I see it being an issues in my friends' relationships is when the man not only has a full time job but things that take him away - whether it's traveling for work or coaching. The woman feels like she's not getting any time and then he wants to go have a guys night. He needs the down time and wants to relax and hang with the guys and she's thinking, "What about me? Where do I fit into your busy schedule?" That's when it gets ugly. Guys definitely need “guy time”. I don’t disagree with that at all. I don’t want to spend all of my time with you and I hope you don’t want to spend all of your time with me. There needs to be a balance and each person needs to have things they can do without their significant other.

The times I see it being an issues in my friends’ relationships is when the man not only has a full time job but things that take him away - whether it’s traveling for work or coaching. The woman feels like she’s not getting any time and then he wants to go have a guys night. He needs the down time and wants to relax and hang with the guys and she’s thinking, “What about me? Where do I fit into your busy schedule?” That’s when it gets ugly.

]]> By: chirky http://www.postednote.com/2008/04/15/bromance-are-you-getting-enough-man-time/comment-page-1/#comment-16374 chirky Tue, 15 Apr 2008 15:24:39 +0000 http://www.postednote.com/?p=968#comment-16374 OMG, can you invite Roger for some guy time? I seriously don't think he gets enough of it, and I tell him that frequently. Go forth with the Bromance! (Some) wives are very supportive of guys having "guy" time - afterall, we like to have Girls Nights Out - why should it be different for guys? OMG, can you invite Roger for some guy time? I seriously don’t think he gets enough of it, and I tell him that frequently. Go forth with the Bromance!

(Some) wives are very supportive of guys having “guy” time - afterall, we like to have Girls Nights Out - why should it be different for guys?

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